Question:
DOES ANYONE ELSE OUT HERE FEEL LIKE THEY ARE GOING NUTS AFTER WLS?
I had surgery on 7/1/03 and my energy level varies, but it is usually very high. I have 3 kids, 2 dogs, 1 bird and 1 tubby husband who sells Ding Dongs for a living and is on the Atkins diet!! UGH!! I also work in a cafeteria that serves 900 middle school kids(one of mine, too) 27 hours a week. I feel like I am going nuts trying to manage IT all! Even my co-workers and manager is "worried" about me. I started this job new in August. I have worked and managed kitchens all my life since 15. That was also the last time I was a normal weight, too. I am questionning my sanity and job choice. I am good at it, just it is weird, now. I was even told by my 2 upper bosses that I could take 6 weeks off w/o pay and "get it together" if I needed too. They want me to stay there for a long time and it can be covered for 6 weeks. I said that I will be fine, and I have so far. Does anyone out there work with food and how do you cope? 7/01/03 289/191/? Have pics on profile. — VERONICA B. (posted on November 26, 2003)
November 25, 2003
Hello, I also had my surgery the same day 07/01/03. Even though I do not
work with food, I woke up this morning thinking I too was going a little
nuts and wondered if there was a way to word it in this forum. The first
post I read was yours,fate,maybe. I have a husband and three children, work
retail and it is Christmas. My stress level is very high. Since we are both
feeling it at the same time in our journey maybe it is just another step we
must go though. Food seems to be a major issue for me right now and I feel
if I worked with food I would be having more difficulties. Please email me
if you would like to have someone to talk open with, I know i could use
someone to talk to. My email address is [email protected]. Hope to hear from
you. Deb
— Debra W.
November 25, 2003
While I do not work with food as much as you, I do teach a double session
of preschoolers and give them a daily snack. (so that is twice for me). I
sit at the table with them and a tray of goodies in front of me and pass
out the food as they request. (many have sppech problems so this way
encourages them to talk) Even yesterday we had a birthday party complete
with cake and icecream. I wish I could give you more advice, but what I
found works for me is to bring my water with me to the table. I drink,
while they eat. Since we can't eat and drink at the same time, it works
for me.
— Heather M.
November 25, 2003
I work for a French company and I bring in catered lunches to my upper
level executives about 3 days a week. The other secretaries here do as
well. The food is CONSTANT on my floor and we even have a kitchen where
they leave the leftovers (of which there are MANY) each day. And sometimes
I DO feel like I'm going nuts. I just finally decided that I'd made a
decision to "take the road less traveled." That is from a poem.
The next line is "and that has made all the difference." I saw
your picture and you are young and vibrant looking in your
"after" photo. Yes, for those of us surrounded by food we have
made a choice. For me, gaining my health and happiness back HAS made all
the difference. I dwell on that rather than all this food now and bring my
own lunch to work so I always have "my" food here.
— Margaret G.
November 26, 2003
I don't work with food, but work in a high school as a secretary (I'm 2 mos
post-RNY). There are constant "goodies" here. Someone's always
bringing bread (so far hasn't bothered me), cookies (bothers me), nut
breads (so-so), and today we celebrated 2 birthdays of co-workers and of
course there was sheet cake with sugary, creamy icing. I ate a very small
sliver. I can see this is going to be a major challenge for me. Most food
doesn't bother me, and I don't dump (at least not yet). I can certainly
understand how your working with food would make you "nuts." I
guess the best any of us can do is just take it "one day at a
time," my favorite motto since beginning my WLS journey in August
2002. You have my support, believe me.
— Carlita
November 26, 2003
i know this sounds very corny and lame but it's the best i got to offer :)
lol. when know i will be around alot of food i have to think of the
"food" differently. i think of it as fuel for the body, i say it
over and over in my mine..this is only fuel. it kinda of helps me not to
think about eating it. i would go nuts if i just thought about what food i
am missing out on eating. i really have to make the effort to not be sad
over what i can't eat. i tell myself...sure this "fuel" looks
good, but it got me fat and i have already lost so much weight so i don't
want to mess it up. try really hard NOT to think about what you can't
eat(this will make you crazy and depressed) and try to remember why you
choose NOT to eat it. sometimes a spit second of healthy thinking can get
rid of the food head-craving. you will always be around food for the rest
of your life so this is something you must learn to cope with, if not you
could regain your weight. if others around you think you need help, maybe
it's a good idea to get it. getting the help can only make things easier.
best of luck to you
— franbvan
November 26, 2003
ORIGINAL POSTER HERE*** I am in counseling. It does help. I can only
imagine my life without it. LOL My therapist had WLS over 10 years ago. She
has been very successful and "knows" my path. She has 3 kids.
They are my age. Thank you all for being there for me. Thank you,
Veronica
— VERONICA B.
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