Gotta do the six month diet!!
I had a 6 month diet then classes and more tests so it took 8 months then I got an infection and had to wait a nineth month but it was well worth the wait
start going to a gym,
start practicing not drinking with meal, and drinking 65 oz of water a day (8 cups)
start measuring and tracking all food ,I use myfitnesspal.com
To journaling your food, I would add a little section to write down why you are eating. Are you actually hungry or reacting to an emotion or some other trigger. That will help you determine whether you are having any psych issues you need to address before surgery. My PCP had me do that and it was surprising sometimes what sent me to the frig and I could walk away knowing I wasn't really hungry.
Me too - just got my 'no' response today and I admit I cried. I'll do what I have to do, but really - I don't know what good 6 months of 'supervised' weight management is going to do that will make a difference compared to the various diets and other medically supervised programs I've been on (just not in the last 12 months.)
So very disappointed and sad for us both.