I am the child of a man who was verbally and physically abusive to my mother.
I cannot tell you how terrified I was as a child. The best thing she ever did was
to get away from him, although he didn't make it easy.
Sadly, some men (and women) are unable to have a healthy relationship with
others.They are so afraid of loss that they drive others away by their possess-
iveness.
If he has begun to manhandle you, after years of derogatory and insulting remarks,
it is a major sign of an abusive relationship.
For your own peace of mind, as well as your safety, please don't let yourself
get within reach of this man again.
I promise, the peace of mind you will gain in NOT having to deal with an abuser
is absolutely PRICELESS.
Let him stew in his own hatefullness and not take it out on you anymore.
Best wishes,