cottagechick
One year!
Jun 19, 2009
So much has changed in one year. I feel like a new person, kinda. I am able to do so much more than I use to. I am walking/jogging 2 miles a day and biking 3 miles a day. I lift weights 5 days a week and I love it! I just love it!When I think back to why I had this surgery I think of what a difference I wanted to make in my daughters life. It has really become so much more than that. I have learned how to take care of me and in the process I think I am learning and beginning to like me. That sounds so insane to say, but I don't think it is. I have learned to listen to what my body is telling me and I have learned what makes me feel better.
I struggle still with wanting to eat things that I know I should not have, but over all I am doing great. I have lost so much weight that I can't believe it is me when I look in the mirror. Literally. I am seeking counceling for that issue. I have a hard time seeing myself or even looking at myself for that matter. I cannot explain it really because I know in my head that I have lost 147 pounds but in my heart I still see that fat girl looking back at myself. My brain often tells me that I am still that fat girl that people stare at and my brain tells me that I am going to gain it all back.
When I struggle with those thoughts I remind myself of how far I can walk and how far I can bike and that I don't fall asleep in my chair at 8 every night. I love the new me. I am working on that part of me that still does not accept me, but over all I absolutely love the new me.
Having weight loss surgery saved my life. I have gone from 341 pounds to 194 pounds. WOW. Under 200! Not since middle school, maybe even 5th grade! AMAZING!