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I'm sooo frustrated!
Jan 25, 2009
I have been so frustrated this weekend it's pathetic! Thursday I spent the day with Tony my husband, soon to be ex. We had some business to take care on in Indy and some stuff to do in Anderson so we both took the day off. We spent a couple hours with our bankruptcy attorney. We have to give them more information in order to complete the filing process. Then we find out we can't file for divorce BEFORE the bankruptcy case is decided by the trustee or we'll have to pay for 2 seperate filing fees, one for him and one for me. All in all we decided we'd hold off on the divorce until we've got the bankruptcy taken care of.Came back to Anderson to the license branch to take his name off the title of the car I'm driving, change his address on the driver's license, stopped to seperate our car insurance so I'd be paying for my car and he'd be paying for his.
Here's the frustating part: He plays keyboards in a country/western band. He was supposed to play in Noblesville on Saturday. When I asked him if I could go with him he told me he was going on a business trip to New Jersey and was leaving Friday. I was told I could go without him and listen to the guys if I wanted to. So Friday and work my girlfriend Amber and I decided we were going to drive to Noblesville and watch the guys plan. Friday night my cell phone rings and it's one of the band wives. She preceeds to tell me Tony's an "F'n" liar. Guess there was a full page add in the MUNCIE newspaper which states Tony is playing this weekend at a bar called the Rooster tail. So I told her when I talked to him earlier on Friday he told me he was on his way to the airport. When I hung up I called him and left him a message to call me. When he called back I told him the Muncie paper is showing he's playing at the Rooster tail and the band he's playing with is mad because they don't think he's in New Jersey at all. He says Andy, tell my wife where we are...Andy gets on the phone and says NJ. Friday night one of my girlfriends called asking me to go dancing with her and I was in my Jammies already so I said no. SATURDAY morning she calls and was MAD at ME because I didn't go dancing with her since my HUSBAND WAS THERE PLAYING! OK! Deep breathe! He's been out of my home for a month now. I haven't been keeping tabs on him and to be honest I'm glad he left me. I'm learning a lot about myself. BUT ~ I'm having a real hard time understanding why he felt the need to LIE to me... We are getting a divorce and he had to know it would back fire at some point. I am SOOOO frustrated with him because now I wonder what else he's lied to me about... I keep telling myself to let it go but then my dang mind kicks on and I'm mad all over again......
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Anderson, IN
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08/08/2008
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