Phoenix
How it all began
Oct 20, 2006
I had my first consult with Dr.Garber. I found him to be very thoughtful, and his entire staff extremely nice and thoughtful.
2004
7/30/04- So far I have had my psych evaluation, sonogram , and yesterday I met with Dr.Herson, the endocrinologist, and found out that I am insulin resistant , imagine my shock and surprise. Truth be told if it weren't for me wanting to have the surgery, I would never have gone to see an endocrinologist becasue I didn't think I would need to. Needless to say I have been stressed since yesterday, the only positive thing yesterday was that I attended my first Support Group Mtg and my husband came with me. Hope fully things will improve next week.
8/11/04-Met with the pulmonary doctor today, and everything was normal with my breathing, tomorrow is the gastroenterologist.My second appt with Dr.Garber is 8/19/04.
8/12/04-Met with my gastroenterologist, everything with him was good, info was fowarded to Dr.Garber's office. Now I just have to wait for my next appt with Dr.Garber.
8/19/04- I had my second appt with Dr.Garber, my husband came with me which was great. I must admit that although I am resolved to do this surgery,I felt so anxious during the examine and meeting. My gastroscopy is scheduled for 8/31/04 and my stress teat is scheduled for 9/9/04. My husband is being so supportive and I know that he will help me to remain on task once I am post-op, he is even planning to take off 2 weeks to be around at home when I come home from the hospital.
8/25/04- Had my Stress test today, it was originally scheduled for 9/9/04, but Donna (Dr.Garber's super PA) called the cardiologist to have the test done earlier. The test went well and the cardiologist cleared me. Next week is the gastroscopy. I'm still feeling very anxious about this journey. I guess it is only natural since this is a life altering decision.
8/29/04- We just came back from Virgina, the annual family gathering, couldn't help but wonder what it would be like next year. I should be almost 1 year post -op at that point, it will be interesting seeing the family as the changed Dawn.
8/30/04- I rec'd a letter from my insurance company approving my surgery, and I also rec'd my surgery date. After receiving all of this info, my husband and I decided to have a talk with our children about the surgery, some of my health problems, and why I was having the surgery. My son who is 12 remembered all of the problems my father had, which are very similar to the co-morbidities I have now, so he understood. My daughter who is 6.5, was a little concerned about me being in a hospital, bit the told me that she hopes my stomach feels ok (childhood innocence is a wonderful thing). I thought my surgery would have been in October, but I will work with the cards that have been dealt to me.
9/3/04- I spoke with the bariatri nurse at Mercy Med Ctr, I have pre-op testing on 9/15. Her name is Anna and she is very nice and considerate. In all honesty everyone I have encountered during this process has been great from the staff at Dr.Garber's office, to the radiology dept at my hospital , and now Anna. This has definitely made this process a lot easier.
9/6/04- I'm 15 days away from WLS, and I am so anxious/nervous. I know that I did not expect the date to come so early and I guess I had convinced myself that I would probably get a date for next month. Now it just seems like there is so much to do in preparation for the surgery and for the post-op, and I still need to tell my mother about the surgery. I don't know if she will support my decision, actually I know she probably won't which is why I am waiting to tell her. My husband thinks that I will tell her as we are on the way to the hospital, he just might be right,I'll play it by ear.
9/13/04- Today was my daughter's 7th birthday, we took her to her favorite place, the China Buffet, and she had the birthday cake of her dreams, all chocolate. We all had a good time, next year she can have her cake and I will have some fruit. Surgery is now 8 days away, and I'm feeling stressed
. I'm worrying about my family, and that includes my mom, because I told her yesterday, and my son who is concerned that I will be in a lot of pain and he doesn't like to see me in pain. To help him, he saw his therapist today and he feels a lot better 
. My plan over the next few days is to write letters to my hubby, children, mom and close friend, just in case. I'm trying to be positive but I am very practical and anything can happen in surgery. Tomorrow I am planning to attend Dr.Garber's patient session and support group meeting, I think I will feel a little better after the meeting.
9/15/04- Ok, pre admission testing is complete, still feeling a bit anxious about next Tuesday, but I am doing my best to remain positive
. It is hard to believe that surgery is less then one week away, the good thing about today is that I am able to find my way around the hospital now. Now I just need to plan out how I will be able to see my children while I am in the hospital. I thin if they have to wait until I come home to see me they will drive their dad and grandmother crazy. Tomorrow I see my PCP for medical clearance. I can't believe that this entire process moved alone so quickly, and uneventfully, and I do know that I was very fortunate that it was eventful, I guess this was all meant to be and before I know it I will moving toward a healthier me 
9/19/04 - I can't believe that surgery is 2 days away, so much is going on. Both of my children want to accompany me to the hospital on 9/21, they are both very concerned and my son wants to be there for his little sister. And to add to the insanity my husband and I are trying to refinance our mortgage and they want to close on 9/22, can't do that because I will still be in the hospital, so we are looking to tomorrow, which is also the 1st Brownie Scout mtg for my daughter, could things be anymore hectic. I also decided that on the last big Sunday family dinner for today, fried chicken, baked mac and cheese, collard greens and corn bread. Yes I know it sounds like a lot but it will serve 2 purposes one being satisfying that "last supper"thing and second there will be leftovers which will be a help to my hubby while I am in the hospital.
9/20/04 - Tomorrow is the day, I have to be at the hospital at 9:45am, I was hoping that it would be earlier, but this will work, I shouldn't have much rush hour traffic left. I have spent today having nothing but clear liquids, thank goodness i made broth over the weekend. I most admit that I am a bit of a nervous wreck, but by this time tomorrow things will be a lot better.My husband will be updating my page while I'm in the hospital, he is my Angel. Anyway I better get in some more liquid, it will be midnight before I know it.....SEE YOU ALL ON THE LOSING SIDE
9/21/04 - Hubby is writing for the next few days 'til Dawn returns. TODAY WAS THE DAY. The day started out smoothly everybody woke up around 7-7:15 and we were out by 8:30 and on our way to the hospital. There was some nervousness going on but everybody held themselves together (Dawn and the Kids). We got to hospital in good time, by 9:45 Dawn was handing me her bag and I was being informed that me and the kids could wait in the waiting area upstairs, about 30-45 minutes later me and the kids went to see her in Pre-Op. By the we got started talking they were coming to wheel her into surgery. Now we beging the waiting, a DVD movie and lunch later about 1:00 we come back to the waiting area. At 1:30ish Dr. Garber came through and left (I was in the restroom so I didn't get to talk to him. ARRRGGGHH!!!), so after some more waiting 30mins I check with the woman at the desk to see if she is in recovery yet and yes she was but she was asleep and recovering. After getting a few phone calls at the waiting room's phone and making nice with the woman on duty who called constantly for me to see if Dawn has awaken and I could go down and see her. So about 3:30 I get cleared to go down and see Dawn and she was groggy but well.
Now I'm just waiting for her to get her phone turned on to check on her and I will update you as to what she would like me to relay to you all.
S.L.P
9/30/04 Hello all, I 've been home for one week now, and this is my first opportubity to check in and write. As you know surgery went well, but I had no idea just how bad the gas would be, which makes the walking difficult, but I've progressed past that point. As far as eating that has been more difficult, I've stocked up on all the "right foods", I just don't have a taste for anything, sipping water all day is ok, I guess this will also improve. Tomorrow is my post-op appt, the drains come out, and i see how much I've lost thus far.
10/16/04 - I am three weeks out so far, I went back to work on 10/12, and it has been an adjustment. I don't have as much energy as I would like to have, so I have been taking naps when I come home in the evening. Everyone on my job is being very supportive, all are encouraging me to take it slowly, even my clients are concerned. Last weekend my hubby and I attened a wedding which was my first outting, and I am proud to say that I did very well. I was extremely careful in what I ate and we danced a lot, of course I was wiped out when I returned home, but I had a good time.
I saw the surgeon on 10/14 and thus far my new total is 27 pounds, its so hard to believe, but I am feeling better, my blood pressure is normal, my ankles and hands aren't swelling, and I haven't had a hypoglycemic attack since the surgery. BTW I found this great website that will alllow you to check the nutritional value of most foods, it is http://www.nal.usda.gov/fnic/foodcomp/search/
11/16/04 - Haven't up-dated in about a month, but things are going well. My energy is still returning and I have been tackling the treadmill and hope to move on to the Total Gym. I'm getting a lot better about getting in my protein, and seem to be tolerating most meats well. My hubby keeps out doing himself in helping me stay on track, most recently he made chocolate syrup with splenda, which came out very well, then he used it to make a low-cal chocolate mousse for me....yummy. All in all my co-workers and friends have been very supportive and I'm looking forward to the next support group meeting.
11/20/04- Things are moving along nicely, I recently bought some sweat pants for working out in and I am so accustomed to always buying a 1X, that is what I bought this time, I put them on this morning and they are too big. Imagine my surprise and excitement. I am always the last to notice weight loss, but there is no denying it, and it feels great.
11/21/04- Usually I don't up-date 2 days in a row, but today was a good day and one of many new experiences. Today I was out with my daughter's Brownie troop. We all went to the Old Bethpage Restoration Village in Long Island, we walked aroung for over 3 hours and I did just fine. I didn't feel winded, I still had energy afterwards, and I was able to keep up with a bunch of 7 and 8 year olds. Definitely a good day.
12/5/04 - Thanksgiving went well, I did all the cooking, but that did not pose any challenges for me, Things have been progressing well. I saw a friend of my after Thanksgiving and she hasn't seen me since 2-days before my surgery, she was shocked at how much I had lost, and complimented me on my progress. That felt nice. I also went shopping b/c my worl clothes aren't fitting well anymore, I bought the size that I thought I had gone down to, and it was too big, I was so surprised. I feel good,and for the most part my energy has been great. I most admit it feels good going up and down stairs without gasping for air. I am even considering joining a Tae Kwon Do school with the rest of my family. Maybe for the new year.
1/20/05 - I know that I haven't up-dated in a while but things are going well. I sa my surgeon today and I have lost a total of 60 pounds since my surgery. It made my entire day, I lost 12 pounds since my last visit in 12/04. And now I can raid hubby's side of the closet, I'm having so much fun.
2/18/05 - Yesterday I had my 5 month visit. I was apprehensive about the visit b/c my monthly is due and I knew I was bloated, so imagine my surprise to have seen an 8.5 weight loss, I was very pleased. Thus far all is good, the only thing that is driving me crazy is my hair and the thinning. Now granted I was blessed with very thick hair so only me, my hubby and my hairdresser notice the thinning. I know its not forever, but I will be so happy when it stops, it has slowed down but I'm anxious for it to stop. I'm also finding shopping to be very interesting. I have spent years shopping at places like the Avenue, Lane Bryant and such, now those clothes are too big, and I feel like a fish out of water while shopping. But I will adjust. Finally my birthday is nex month and I am strongly considering my fifth tattoo, for my lower back. I'll let you all know if I go through with it.
3/5/05 - This was an interesting week, I discovered that gas and constipation can be very bad and painful. I had to go to the ER at Mercy, the good thing is when the pain started and I called Dr.Garber's office everyone was so attentive and helpful and when I finally went to the ER, they were ready for me, because Dr.Holover, Dr.Garber's colleague had already called there. Needless to say it was an experience. On a more positive note, I'm getting lots of compliments and my clothes are way 2 big, and my mom is benefitting from that.I feel good, more confident and happier. I'm getting my fifth tattoo on Monday 3/7. My hubby designed a phoenix tattoo for me. I feel its symbolic of the changes and my rebirth since WLS.
3/18/05- Tomorrow is my 20th High School reunion, something that I have been looking forward too for a while. So today I went shopping, couldn't go any sooner b/c whatever I would have bought would have been too big by tomorrow. So I went to Dress Barn and had an adventure, I have never shopped in Dress Barn just Dress Barn Woman, I didn't know how to act, when I discovered that I could wear a size 14 and not a 14W, I actually tried on a 16 and it was too big ( woo-hoo). So I found some nice slacks in a stone colour and not black or navy blue like I would buy pre-op, and a melon coloured shirt, definitely not the old Dawn. When I discovered the new size I call my hubby and my girlfriend ( both of whom have been very supportive) to tell them my news.Now I'm the same size she is, so we can have even more shopping experiences. Tomorrow should be even more fun.
3/20/05- So yesterday was my 20th HS reunion and I had such a wonderful time. It was great seeing people catching up on what we have all been up to over the past 20 years. I rec'd a lot of compliments about how I looked, which was nice and my hubby was there smiling with me with each compliment. The other thing that happend yesterday was that after 7 and a half years I was finally able to wear my wedding band again. I haven't been able to wear it since my daughter was born. I resaly, really enjoyed myself.
3/31/05 - Today I had my 6 month appt, thus far I am down 79.5 pounds and it feels terrific. Recently I looked through some pics from 2003 and realized just how much I have changed and it is amazing. It is also interesting to realize just how unhealthy I was at that time, and now I'm a different person. I am so aware of the nutrional value of whatever I eat or drink, I'm really very proud of myself in this area, and it is even rubbing off on my children and hubby. I must admit that I haven't felt this please about anything in such a long time that it is well overdue.
4/10/05 - I saw this today and had to include on my page, please copy and use on your page if you like
You know you’re a weight loss patient when…….
~Author Unknown~
“I have a date” doesn’t mean you are going out
You have baby food in the house but no baby
“I’m a looser” is a good thing
All of your silverware says Gerber
A wooden spoon isn’t just for cooking anymore
“Welcome to the other side” does not mean you have to die
New clothes fall off in a week.
You are excited about “hand me downs”
The scale at Wal-Mart doesn’t say, “One at a time please”
YOU have a NEW family!
Going bald and getting wrinkles is a good thing
Just water for me please
Hitting the “Century mark” is a good thing!
You love the taste of Chewable Centrum Rugrats or biting the head off Wilma
You can be Touched By An Angel and not be considered crazy
People start to call you tiny, and it’s a good thing
When your rear doesn’t look like a mudslide anymore??????
When you are excited your incision is only 6 inches
When the word lap has nothing to do with a strip club
When it’s usually Vikings vs Bears not lap vs open!
When “ No, I couldn’t eat another bite” really has a deeper meaning!
Other women start calling you bitch behind your back
When they look at you resentfully in the plus size store because you really don’t belong there anymore!
When it’s okay to say, “I haven’t a thing to wear!”
When you have to prove who you are on your driver’s license!
When you start hogging camera space and loving the pictures!
Saying your open doesn’t mean you are gay!
You are noticing people’s eye color for the first time.
Life has new possibilities
You want to hug everyone who is obese and give them your surgeon’s card
You are never without a bottle of water
When people look surprised when they see how little you eat.
When you know all too well the definition of “dumping”.
When you can see your feet for the first time in years!
When you order a doggy bag at the same time you order your meal
Counting protein grams instead of calories
You can say, “Oh, I won’t have any of that, I’m full.” and really mean it.
Being too small for your britches.
When the only way your nipples are where they belong is to roll them up, position in your bra and secure with a ponytail holder!!!
And my best so far…….having my husband say, “Honey, I can put my arm(not arms) all the way around you!”
When you go to your child’s school and the other kids say WOW you’re mom is hot!
When you go to the mall and you park in the first open space instead of circling for 20 minutes for the spot by the door.
When you and your new best WLS friend are planning a date to get belly button rings….(or a tattoo!)
Your new best WLS friend makes sure your belly button piercing is a diamond-because she’s worth it!
You go out on a date and are really truly a “Cheap date” and not in the way that some think
When one drink makes you a flipping floozy
When you run you don’t hear flapping noises………oh wait you still do…..but at least you are running!!!
When not throwing up counts as a really good day!
When your tummy looks like a stitched up teddy bear or Raggedy Ann!
When your husband takes your breath away in a moment of passion…but not because he is squishing your tummy!
You feel like you have over eaten after eating a half a cup of something.
Vitamins and calcium feel etc. feel like a meal.
When your pants suddenly fall to the ground.
You go from a size 56DDDD to a 32AAA and in one year and you did not have a breast reduction.
When the chef comes out of the kitchen and asks you, “What’s the matter, don’t you like the meal?”
You’ve just lost 100lbs and someone who hasn’t seen you in a while says….”Gee, did you change your hairstyle?”
When you bend over and see the daylight through your thighs.
You can cross your legs….both of them!
When you say, “ I just got these clothes last week and they’re already too big!”
Trying to cash a check and the teller says, “That’s not you!”
Instead of the “Wonder Bra” you need a “Wonder Where They Went Bra”.
You walk into a store and see all the weight loss products and know you will never need to buy them again because now you have “THE TOOL.”
When you walk by a mirror and say, “Who’s that girl?”
When people take a double look at you.
When you go out for the evening and feel like Cinderella.
When you are on a plateau and it doesn’t mean you are in Colorado.
When you’re obsession turns from food to your scale.
When you say to your PCP,” I want it right here, right now on the examination table” and you don’t mean sex!
When they no longer have to call 911 and the jaws of life to extricate you from all the turnstiles at 6 flags.
When your boobs are no longer just big, but they’re now also llllloooonnnggg.
When the Sharpei you pass on the street reminds you of someone you know-yourself!
When taking a splinter out of your own foot no longer involves rope with tweezers or a second party with tweezers.
When you start buying shoes that tie again.
When the army calls and asks if they can have all your old muumuus for tents.
When your hand will fit in the Pringles can again, but you don’t want any.
When the thought of an all you can eat buffet makes you want to barf!
When the steering wheel in your car no longer cuts off the circulation in your tummy area.
You no longer have a mark on your shirt from the steering wheel rubbing on it.
When you drop food, it no longer lands on your boobs, but actually lands in your lap.
No more cracked toilet seats!
You can avoid the handicap stalls in public restrooms because you can now ”fit” in a regular stall.
The thought of flying coach no longer sends you into a panic attack.
When you are able to tuck a blouse into your pants.
When you don’t use the thongs to fry chicken.
When you are excited to be able to go to the thrift shops and get your dressy clothes.
When the flight attendant doesn’t reach for the seatbelt extender and you can sit by the window.
When you can drive your car with the steering wheel down and you can bring the seat somewhat closer to the gas pedal, instead of using your tippy toes.
When people actually “see” you and talk to you, and not through you like you are invisible.
When you order a child’s meal, and take half home in a doggie bag.
You can buy panty hose at the regular super market when in a hurry.
You actually want to wear a dress to go with the panty hose.
When checking for leaks does not mean looking at your panties!!!!!!
When your spandex shorts are used got JOGGING and no merely as an anti chaffing between the thighs shielding device!
When your exercise equipment isn’t just for drying your fine washables anymore.
When you start dropping things on purpose, just because you know you can pick it up so easily now.
People who know you are concerned that you are working out too much.
Your mother says, “Dear, you aren’t eating enough.”
When you can honestly say, “I threw my back out from a combo of mountain climbing in the day time and too much sex in the night time on my romantic vacation with my new Swedish boyfriends, Sven”, instead of “I threw my back out trying to wipe my own @$$.”
When the term “Can’t touch this” (Hammer time) doesn’t apply to you anymore!
When they say, “put your trays up” on the plane and yours was actually down!
When someone gives you a hand and it’s applause, not helping you out of your chair.
Nasty oozing rash=A KODAK MOMENT
You don’t even NOTICE the shock of horror on everyone’s face when you turn to your spouse in a public place and exclaim that you are about to DUMP.
You don’t have to give guys that whistle at you the “finger” anymore because they actually think you are pretty.
Wooden spoon=post op pooper scooper!
When referring to your “ex” with utter contempt and disgust has nothing to do with a failed romance, but with an unsupportive, uncaring, ignorant PCP you dropped.
When your doctor looks you in the eye and says, “ I know you will be a success at this.”
7/30/04- So far I have had my psych evaluation, sonogram , and yesterday I met with Dr.Herson, the endocrinologist, and found out that I am insulin resistant , imagine my shock and surprise. Truth be told if it weren't for me wanting to have the surgery, I would never have gone to see an endocrinologist becasue I didn't think I would need to. Needless to say I have been stressed since yesterday, the only positive thing yesterday was that I attended my first Support Group Mtg and my husband came with me. Hope fully things will improve next week.
8/11/04-Met with the pulmonary doctor today, and everything was normal with my breathing, tomorrow is the gastroenterologist.My second appt with Dr.Garber is 8/19/04.
8/12/04-Met with my gastroenterologist, everything with him was good, info was fowarded to Dr.Garber's office. Now I just have to wait for my next appt with Dr.Garber.
8/19/04- I had my second appt with Dr.Garber, my husband came with me which was great. I must admit that although I am resolved to do this surgery,I felt so anxious during the examine and meeting. My gastroscopy is scheduled for 8/31/04 and my stress teat is scheduled for 9/9/04. My husband is being so supportive and I know that he will help me to remain on task once I am post-op, he is even planning to take off 2 weeks to be around at home when I come home from the hospital.
8/25/04- Had my Stress test today, it was originally scheduled for 9/9/04, but Donna (Dr.Garber's super PA) called the cardiologist to have the test done earlier. The test went well and the cardiologist cleared me. Next week is the gastroscopy. I'm still feeling very anxious about this journey. I guess it is only natural since this is a life altering decision.
8/29/04- We just came back from Virgina, the annual family gathering, couldn't help but wonder what it would be like next year. I should be almost 1 year post -op at that point, it will be interesting seeing the family as the changed Dawn.
8/30/04- I rec'd a letter from my insurance company approving my surgery, and I also rec'd my surgery date. After receiving all of this info, my husband and I decided to have a talk with our children about the surgery, some of my health problems, and why I was having the surgery. My son who is 12 remembered all of the problems my father had, which are very similar to the co-morbidities I have now, so he understood. My daughter who is 6.5, was a little concerned about me being in a hospital, bit the told me that she hopes my stomach feels ok (childhood innocence is a wonderful thing). I thought my surgery would have been in October, but I will work with the cards that have been dealt to me.
9/3/04- I spoke with the bariatri nurse at Mercy Med Ctr, I have pre-op testing on 9/15. Her name is Anna and she is very nice and considerate. In all honesty everyone I have encountered during this process has been great from the staff at Dr.Garber's office, to the radiology dept at my hospital , and now Anna. This has definitely made this process a lot easier.
9/6/04- I'm 15 days away from WLS, and I am so anxious/nervous. I know that I did not expect the date to come so early and I guess I had convinced myself that I would probably get a date for next month. Now it just seems like there is so much to do in preparation for the surgery and for the post-op, and I still need to tell my mother about the surgery. I don't know if she will support my decision, actually I know she probably won't which is why I am waiting to tell her. My husband thinks that I will tell her as we are on the way to the hospital, he just might be right,I'll play it by ear.
9/13/04- Today was my daughter's 7th birthday, we took her to her favorite place, the China Buffet, and she had the birthday cake of her dreams, all chocolate. We all had a good time, next year she can have her cake and I will have some fruit. Surgery is now 8 days away, and I'm feeling stressed
. I'm worrying about my family, and that includes my mom, because I told her yesterday, and my son who is concerned that I will be in a lot of pain and he doesn't like to see me in pain. To help him, he saw his therapist today and he feels a lot better . My plan over the next few days is to write letters to my hubby, children, mom and close friend, just in case. I'm trying to be positive but I am very practical and anything can happen in surgery. Tomorrow I am planning to attend Dr.Garber's patient session and support group meeting, I think I will feel a little better after the meeting.9/15/04- Ok, pre admission testing is complete, still feeling a bit anxious about next Tuesday, but I am doing my best to remain positive
. It is hard to believe that surgery is less then one week away, the good thing about today is that I am able to find my way around the hospital now. Now I just need to plan out how I will be able to see my children while I am in the hospital. I thin if they have to wait until I come home to see me they will drive their dad and grandmother crazy. Tomorrow I see my PCP for medical clearance. I can't believe that this entire process moved alone so quickly, and uneventfully, and I do know that I was very fortunate that it was eventful, I guess this was all meant to be and before I know it I will moving toward a healthier me 9/19/04 - I can't believe that surgery is 2 days away, so much is going on. Both of my children want to accompany me to the hospital on 9/21, they are both very concerned and my son wants to be there for his little sister. And to add to the insanity my husband and I are trying to refinance our mortgage and they want to close on 9/22, can't do that because I will still be in the hospital, so we are looking to tomorrow, which is also the 1st Brownie Scout mtg for my daughter, could things be anymore hectic. I also decided that on the last big Sunday family dinner for today, fried chicken, baked mac and cheese, collard greens and corn bread. Yes I know it sounds like a lot but it will serve 2 purposes one being satisfying that "last supper"thing and second there will be leftovers which will be a help to my hubby while I am in the hospital.
9/20/04 - Tomorrow is the day, I have to be at the hospital at 9:45am, I was hoping that it would be earlier, but this will work, I shouldn't have much rush hour traffic left. I have spent today having nothing but clear liquids, thank goodness i made broth over the weekend. I most admit that I am a bit of a nervous wreck, but by this time tomorrow things will be a lot better.My husband will be updating my page while I'm in the hospital, he is my Angel. Anyway I better get in some more liquid, it will be midnight before I know it.....SEE YOU ALL ON THE LOSING SIDE
9/21/04 - Hubby is writing for the next few days 'til Dawn returns. TODAY WAS THE DAY. The day started out smoothly everybody woke up around 7-7:15 and we were out by 8:30 and on our way to the hospital. There was some nervousness going on but everybody held themselves together (Dawn and the Kids). We got to hospital in good time, by 9:45 Dawn was handing me her bag and I was being informed that me and the kids could wait in the waiting area upstairs, about 30-45 minutes later me and the kids went to see her in Pre-Op. By the we got started talking they were coming to wheel her into surgery. Now we beging the waiting, a DVD movie and lunch later about 1:00 we come back to the waiting area. At 1:30ish Dr. Garber came through and left (I was in the restroom so I didn't get to talk to him. ARRRGGGHH!!!), so after some more waiting 30mins I check with the woman at the desk to see if she is in recovery yet and yes she was but she was asleep and recovering. After getting a few phone calls at the waiting room's phone and making nice with the woman on duty who called constantly for me to see if Dawn has awaken and I could go down and see her. So about 3:30 I get cleared to go down and see Dawn and she was groggy but well.
Now I'm just waiting for her to get her phone turned on to check on her and I will update you as to what she would like me to relay to you all.
S.L.P
9/30/04 Hello all, I 've been home for one week now, and this is my first opportubity to check in and write. As you know surgery went well, but I had no idea just how bad the gas would be, which makes the walking difficult, but I've progressed past that point. As far as eating that has been more difficult, I've stocked up on all the "right foods", I just don't have a taste for anything, sipping water all day is ok, I guess this will also improve. Tomorrow is my post-op appt, the drains come out, and i see how much I've lost thus far.
10/16/04 - I am three weeks out so far, I went back to work on 10/12, and it has been an adjustment. I don't have as much energy as I would like to have, so I have been taking naps when I come home in the evening. Everyone on my job is being very supportive, all are encouraging me to take it slowly, even my clients are concerned. Last weekend my hubby and I attened a wedding which was my first outting, and I am proud to say that I did very well. I was extremely careful in what I ate and we danced a lot, of course I was wiped out when I returned home, but I had a good time.
I saw the surgeon on 10/14 and thus far my new total is 27 pounds, its so hard to believe, but I am feeling better, my blood pressure is normal, my ankles and hands aren't swelling, and I haven't had a hypoglycemic attack since the surgery. BTW I found this great website that will alllow you to check the nutritional value of most foods, it is http://www.nal.usda.gov/fnic/foodcomp/search/
11/16/04 - Haven't up-dated in about a month, but things are going well. My energy is still returning and I have been tackling the treadmill and hope to move on to the Total Gym. I'm getting a lot better about getting in my protein, and seem to be tolerating most meats well. My hubby keeps out doing himself in helping me stay on track, most recently he made chocolate syrup with splenda, which came out very well, then he used it to make a low-cal chocolate mousse for me....yummy. All in all my co-workers and friends have been very supportive and I'm looking forward to the next support group meeting.
11/20/04- Things are moving along nicely, I recently bought some sweat pants for working out in and I am so accustomed to always buying a 1X, that is what I bought this time, I put them on this morning and they are too big. Imagine my surprise and excitement. I am always the last to notice weight loss, but there is no denying it, and it feels great.
11/21/04- Usually I don't up-date 2 days in a row, but today was a good day and one of many new experiences. Today I was out with my daughter's Brownie troop. We all went to the Old Bethpage Restoration Village in Long Island, we walked aroung for over 3 hours and I did just fine. I didn't feel winded, I still had energy afterwards, and I was able to keep up with a bunch of 7 and 8 year olds. Definitely a good day.
12/5/04 - Thanksgiving went well, I did all the cooking, but that did not pose any challenges for me, Things have been progressing well. I saw a friend of my after Thanksgiving and she hasn't seen me since 2-days before my surgery, she was shocked at how much I had lost, and complimented me on my progress. That felt nice. I also went shopping b/c my worl clothes aren't fitting well anymore, I bought the size that I thought I had gone down to, and it was too big, I was so surprised. I feel good,and for the most part my energy has been great. I most admit it feels good going up and down stairs without gasping for air. I am even considering joining a Tae Kwon Do school with the rest of my family. Maybe for the new year.
1/20/05 - I know that I haven't up-dated in a while but things are going well. I sa my surgeon today and I have lost a total of 60 pounds since my surgery. It made my entire day, I lost 12 pounds since my last visit in 12/04. And now I can raid hubby's side of the closet, I'm having so much fun.
2/18/05 - Yesterday I had my 5 month visit. I was apprehensive about the visit b/c my monthly is due and I knew I was bloated, so imagine my surprise to have seen an 8.5 weight loss, I was very pleased. Thus far all is good, the only thing that is driving me crazy is my hair and the thinning. Now granted I was blessed with very thick hair so only me, my hubby and my hairdresser notice the thinning. I know its not forever, but I will be so happy when it stops, it has slowed down but I'm anxious for it to stop. I'm also finding shopping to be very interesting. I have spent years shopping at places like the Avenue, Lane Bryant and such, now those clothes are too big, and I feel like a fish out of water while shopping. But I will adjust. Finally my birthday is nex month and I am strongly considering my fifth tattoo, for my lower back. I'll let you all know if I go through with it.
3/5/05 - This was an interesting week, I discovered that gas and constipation can be very bad and painful. I had to go to the ER at Mercy, the good thing is when the pain started and I called Dr.Garber's office everyone was so attentive and helpful and when I finally went to the ER, they were ready for me, because Dr.Holover, Dr.Garber's colleague had already called there. Needless to say it was an experience. On a more positive note, I'm getting lots of compliments and my clothes are way 2 big, and my mom is benefitting from that.I feel good, more confident and happier. I'm getting my fifth tattoo on Monday 3/7. My hubby designed a phoenix tattoo for me. I feel its symbolic of the changes and my rebirth since WLS.
3/18/05- Tomorrow is my 20th High School reunion, something that I have been looking forward too for a while. So today I went shopping, couldn't go any sooner b/c whatever I would have bought would have been too big by tomorrow. So I went to Dress Barn and had an adventure, I have never shopped in Dress Barn just Dress Barn Woman, I didn't know how to act, when I discovered that I could wear a size 14 and not a 14W, I actually tried on a 16 and it was too big ( woo-hoo). So I found some nice slacks in a stone colour and not black or navy blue like I would buy pre-op, and a melon coloured shirt, definitely not the old Dawn. When I discovered the new size I call my hubby and my girlfriend ( both of whom have been very supportive) to tell them my news.Now I'm the same size she is, so we can have even more shopping experiences. Tomorrow should be even more fun.
3/20/05- So yesterday was my 20th HS reunion and I had such a wonderful time. It was great seeing people catching up on what we have all been up to over the past 20 years. I rec'd a lot of compliments about how I looked, which was nice and my hubby was there smiling with me with each compliment. The other thing that happend yesterday was that after 7 and a half years I was finally able to wear my wedding band again. I haven't been able to wear it since my daughter was born. I resaly, really enjoyed myself.
3/31/05 - Today I had my 6 month appt, thus far I am down 79.5 pounds and it feels terrific. Recently I looked through some pics from 2003 and realized just how much I have changed and it is amazing. It is also interesting to realize just how unhealthy I was at that time, and now I'm a different person. I am so aware of the nutrional value of whatever I eat or drink, I'm really very proud of myself in this area, and it is even rubbing off on my children and hubby. I must admit that I haven't felt this please about anything in such a long time that it is well overdue.
4/10/05 - I saw this today and had to include on my page, please copy and use on your page if you like
You know you’re a weight loss patient when…….
~Author Unknown~
“I have a date” doesn’t mean you are going out
You have baby food in the house but no baby
“I’m a looser” is a good thing
All of your silverware says Gerber
A wooden spoon isn’t just for cooking anymore
“Welcome to the other side” does not mean you have to die
New clothes fall off in a week.
You are excited about “hand me downs”
The scale at Wal-Mart doesn’t say, “One at a time please”
YOU have a NEW family!
Going bald and getting wrinkles is a good thing
Just water for me please
Hitting the “Century mark” is a good thing!
You love the taste of Chewable Centrum Rugrats or biting the head off Wilma
You can be Touched By An Angel and not be considered crazy
People start to call you tiny, and it’s a good thing
When your rear doesn’t look like a mudslide anymore??????
When you are excited your incision is only 6 inches
When the word lap has nothing to do with a strip club
When it’s usually Vikings vs Bears not lap vs open!
When “ No, I couldn’t eat another bite” really has a deeper meaning!
Other women start calling you bitch behind your back
When they look at you resentfully in the plus size store because you really don’t belong there anymore!
When it’s okay to say, “I haven’t a thing to wear!”
When you have to prove who you are on your driver’s license!
When you start hogging camera space and loving the pictures!
Saying your open doesn’t mean you are gay!
You are noticing people’s eye color for the first time.
Life has new possibilities
You want to hug everyone who is obese and give them your surgeon’s card
You are never without a bottle of water
When people look surprised when they see how little you eat.
When you know all too well the definition of “dumping”.
When you can see your feet for the first time in years!
When you order a doggy bag at the same time you order your meal
Counting protein grams instead of calories
You can say, “Oh, I won’t have any of that, I’m full.” and really mean it.
Being too small for your britches.
When the only way your nipples are where they belong is to roll them up, position in your bra and secure with a ponytail holder!!!
And my best so far…….having my husband say, “Honey, I can put my arm(not arms) all the way around you!”
When you go to your child’s school and the other kids say WOW you’re mom is hot!
When you go to the mall and you park in the first open space instead of circling for 20 minutes for the spot by the door.
When you and your new best WLS friend are planning a date to get belly button rings….(or a tattoo!)
Your new best WLS friend makes sure your belly button piercing is a diamond-because she’s worth it!
You go out on a date and are really truly a “Cheap date” and not in the way that some think
When one drink makes you a flipping floozy
When you run you don’t hear flapping noises………oh wait you still do…..but at least you are running!!!
When not throwing up counts as a really good day!
When your tummy looks like a stitched up teddy bear or Raggedy Ann!
When your husband takes your breath away in a moment of passion…but not because he is squishing your tummy!
You feel like you have over eaten after eating a half a cup of something.
Vitamins and calcium feel etc. feel like a meal.
When your pants suddenly fall to the ground.
You go from a size 56DDDD to a 32AAA and in one year and you did not have a breast reduction.
When the chef comes out of the kitchen and asks you, “What’s the matter, don’t you like the meal?”
You’ve just lost 100lbs and someone who hasn’t seen you in a while says….”Gee, did you change your hairstyle?”
When you bend over and see the daylight through your thighs.
You can cross your legs….both of them!
When you say, “ I just got these clothes last week and they’re already too big!”
Trying to cash a check and the teller says, “That’s not you!”
Instead of the “Wonder Bra” you need a “Wonder Where They Went Bra”.
You walk into a store and see all the weight loss products and know you will never need to buy them again because now you have “THE TOOL.”
When you walk by a mirror and say, “Who’s that girl?”
When people take a double look at you.
When you go out for the evening and feel like Cinderella.
When you are on a plateau and it doesn’t mean you are in Colorado.
When you’re obsession turns from food to your scale.
When you say to your PCP,” I want it right here, right now on the examination table” and you don’t mean sex!
When they no longer have to call 911 and the jaws of life to extricate you from all the turnstiles at 6 flags.
When your boobs are no longer just big, but they’re now also llllloooonnnggg.
When the Sharpei you pass on the street reminds you of someone you know-yourself!
When taking a splinter out of your own foot no longer involves rope with tweezers or a second party with tweezers.
When you start buying shoes that tie again.
When the army calls and asks if they can have all your old muumuus for tents.
When your hand will fit in the Pringles can again, but you don’t want any.
When the thought of an all you can eat buffet makes you want to barf!
When the steering wheel in your car no longer cuts off the circulation in your tummy area.
You no longer have a mark on your shirt from the steering wheel rubbing on it.
When you drop food, it no longer lands on your boobs, but actually lands in your lap.
No more cracked toilet seats!
You can avoid the handicap stalls in public restrooms because you can now ”fit” in a regular stall.
The thought of flying coach no longer sends you into a panic attack.
When you are able to tuck a blouse into your pants.
When you don’t use the thongs to fry chicken.
When you are excited to be able to go to the thrift shops and get your dressy clothes.
When the flight attendant doesn’t reach for the seatbelt extender and you can sit by the window.
When you can drive your car with the steering wheel down and you can bring the seat somewhat closer to the gas pedal, instead of using your tippy toes.
When people actually “see” you and talk to you, and not through you like you are invisible.
When you order a child’s meal, and take half home in a doggie bag.
You can buy panty hose at the regular super market when in a hurry.
You actually want to wear a dress to go with the panty hose.
When checking for leaks does not mean looking at your panties!!!!!!
When your spandex shorts are used got JOGGING and no merely as an anti chaffing between the thighs shielding device!
When your exercise equipment isn’t just for drying your fine washables anymore.
When you start dropping things on purpose, just because you know you can pick it up so easily now.
People who know you are concerned that you are working out too much.
Your mother says, “Dear, you aren’t eating enough.”
When you can honestly say, “I threw my back out from a combo of mountain climbing in the day time and too much sex in the night time on my romantic vacation with my new Swedish boyfriends, Sven”, instead of “I threw my back out trying to wipe my own @$$.”
When the term “Can’t touch this” (Hammer time) doesn’t apply to you anymore!
When they say, “put your trays up” on the plane and yours was actually down!
When someone gives you a hand and it’s applause, not helping you out of your chair.
Nasty oozing rash=A KODAK MOMENT
You don’t even NOTICE the shock of horror on everyone’s face when you turn to your spouse in a public place and exclaim that you are about to DUMP.
You don’t have to give guys that whistle at you the “finger” anymore because they actually think you are pretty.
Wooden spoon=post op pooper scooper!
When referring to your “ex” with utter contempt and disgust has nothing to do with a failed romance, but with an unsupportive, uncaring, ignorant PCP you dropped.
When your doctor looks you in the eye and says, “ I know you will be a success at this.”
About Me
Bellport, NY
Location
25.7
BMI
Surgery
09/21/2004
Surgery Date
Jul 12, 2004
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