I'm so sorry for your loss!! Words cannot make things better, but just know that many here are praying for you and keeping you in their thoughts.
I have a dissection in one of the 4 arteries in my neck, that has caused a blod clot, that caused 3 strokes. I appear to be normal now, but still live with the fear of the unknown and it has been really hard on my family!! So I understand a bit and so totally feel for you and your family!!!
May God bless you all with the strength to pull through this! big hugs, Becky